Mlongo wa mchimwene wanga ndi wokongola kwambiri, ali nazo zonse - mawere ake, matako, ndi mawere ake ndi okongola. Ndipo bulu, ndikukuuzani, akugwira ntchito, popeza zoseweretsa zimalowa mdzenje m'chilimwe. Ndikuganiza kuti aka si nthawi yoyamba yomwe mtsikanayo amawagwiritsa ntchito, ndipo alendo amakhalapo nthawi zambiri. Mlongo - masteress anali mu mapulani onse - ndipo amayamwa bwino, ndipo kumatako ankadziwa bwino. Mchimwene wake amangolingalira za kupha msuweni wake waulesi.
Ndimakonda atsikana okhala ndi mabere ofewa komanso mabere osalala. Iwo ali ngati mame a m’mawa – akununkhiza mwatsopano ndi woyera. Mwamuna aliyense amafuna kusangalala ndi zithumwa zawo. Apa ndipo mnyamatayo adatsika pamasamba atatu nthawi imodzi, adawaphwanya ndikusangalala nawo mokwanira. Ndipo njira ndi chisangalalo chomwe adamuyamwitsa ndikulawa machedwe ake amangosangalatsa. Ndiwo mtundu wa mtsikana yemwe ndikufuna kuti ndimugwire pompano.
Kamwanako kali ndi zaka 18, koma akufuna kuikamo IUD. Dokotala akufotokoza kuti akhoza kuchitira atsikana azaka zapakati pa 21 okha. Koma kulimbikira kwa wodwalayo kumapambanabe. Dokotala wachikazi anamusonyeza njira yabwino yochitira chiwerewere. Tsopano akhoza kugonana m'matako - popanda chitetezo chilichonse.
Kugonana kokongola komanso kofewa kwambiri, popanda kukangana komanso kufulumira kosafunikira, zikuwonekeratu kuti mwamunayo ali wotsimikiza kuti dona uyu adamupeza osati kwa nthawi yoyamba komanso osati komaliza. Umu ndi momwe maanja omwe akhala m'banja kwa nthawi yoposa chaka amatha kumenyana, chilakolako choyamba chatha, ndipo zonse zomwe zatsala ndi kutsimikizika kwa bata kuti kugonana kwabwino kumatsimikizika!